Comments on: Why Relationships Don’t Work Out

By: The Queen

The Queen — Fri, 08 Jan 2010 03:06:47 +0000

If you have made all the appropriate moves to suggest to your girlfriend that you love her, then this is a ‘her’ problem, not a ‘you’ problem. If she is battling some insecurities and low self-esteem, it doesn’t matter if you scream it from the roof top…she might not ever feel it. If she’s lacking self-love, she will find it impossible for you to love her also. You might want to check into this. Don’t throw your back out trying to prove your love to her. She should see it in your actions, if she still doesn’t see it- tell her to take her blinders off.

By: the man

the man — Sun, 20 Dec 2009 15:47:31 +0000

good advice ive been having problems w/ my relationship and she thinks i dont love her what should i do?

By: dianacno1

dianacno1 — Thu, 11 Jun 2009 18:56:27 +0000

Queen you are SO telling the truth!! I cannot wait to share your knowledge with the not so informed people in my life who seem to (but don’t know it!) need your vast wisdom!!….lol

By: The Queen

The Queen — Wed, 06 May 2009 16:48:53 +0000

Also a lot of relationships end because people (men?) don’t want to make a commitment.
Jody- You are so right! I have to admit, back in the day, I couldn’t even commit to waking up every morning to go to class..much less being committed in a relationship. lol

By: Jody

Jody — Sat, 02 May 2009 02:21:02 +0000

Also a lot of relationships end because people (men?) don’t want to make a commitment.

By: Donna Reiss

Donna Reiss — Tue, 28 Apr 2009 22:09:11 +0000

Hello Queen…hereit is I have corrected it…thanks for letting me know…..Donna

By: Darlene Jeter

Darlene Jeter — Tue, 28 Apr 2009 11:56:16 +0000

Yes, in-laws can ruin a relationship. All mothers should understand that there can only be ONE woman in a man’s life — period! The vows say forsake all others!

By: Tina T

Tina T — Mon, 27 Apr 2009 20:15:12 +0000

I’ve had lots of friends lose husbands and boyfriends to the grass is always greener myth. I was always told “the grass is always greenest where you water it.” Makes perfect sense to me. Of course your wife that you ignore seems less appealing to you than your secretary that you shower with compliments. You’re watering the wrong dang grass.

By: Jen-After the Alter

Jen-After the Alter — Thu, 23 Apr 2009 21:00:34 +0000

I think the reasons you mentioned are HUGE! Love isn’t always enough in a relationship. There are so many outside factors that influence how things turn out. I like your first one which is being open and honest up front…I mean cover your bases…talk about children, and religion. I think those two are huge…plus geography. I think that is a big one not mentioned. My husband and I had a really tough time over where we will live. It sometimes almost looked like it was a deal breaker!

Jen

By: bobby

bobby — Thu, 23 Apr 2009 18:54:41 +0000

Thanks Queen for the explanation, I got it now. I actually understand the reasons better as well

I’ll let you in on a little secret, I do say I love you on a regular basis to a partner (when I have one), because I mean it or wouldn’t be with them otherwise. I feel they deserve to hear it. Shhhhhh don’t let this get around or I could loss my “Man papers”, k? lol