Woman hasn’t seen weenie in weeks. Woman wonders if man still has weenie. Sound familiar? If you are a woman in a “dead sex” relationship, you are not alone, my friend. We always hear about the wife denying the husband of booty. Believe me, I read about it all the time. What about the men that deny the women of booty? What is up with that? I thought we were suppose to be the ones to deny sex. Have the tables turned? I have talked to several men, who all say they would never turn down sex. Okay, there was one who said he turned it down once but that was only because he was sleeping.
What is a woman doing writing a blog about “Why Men Don’t Want Sex”? Good question. I wanted to write a blog on this topic because it seems to be a popular discussion. Honestly, I have no idea why men don’t want sex. I can pretend and act like I know but the real truth can only come from men themselves. There are a lot of ideas out there about what women think about the issue but it’s hard to find what men actually think. I’ve done a lot of research on the topic and thought I would put together some ideas. I’ve looked at it from a woman’s stand point, which seemed to be believable. Then, I looked at it from a man’s stand point and it was extremely hard to swallow. All in all it was pretty entertaining.
Why Men Do Not Have Sex:
1)Sexual Dysfunction: I have no idea what it’s like to have a limp noodle. It has to be embarrassing as hell. I think I would avoid sex at all costs if I couldn’t get my Johnson to function correctly. Viagra, anyone? I use to know a guy that had problems with premature ejaculation. My girlfriends couldn’t even get to first base with him without him going all over himself. Then, there is the minute man. As soon as you are starting to get into the mood, KABOOM, he goes. What is that about? If men are having these sorts of problems, it’s no wonder they hide underneath the bed. I’m sure there are tons and tons of information as to how to fix this sort of problem. The first thing a man should do is communicate to their partner about it. It can be fun tackling issues like these all alone.
2)Sleep Deprived: Well, there was that one dude that said he turned down sex because he was sleeping. I guess having a lack of sleep can tackle your libido in different ways. If you are getting the “Not tonight, I’m tired” ,then he gets a significant amount of sleep and he still tells you that? You can write that one off as an excuse.
3)Medication/Addiction: If your man is addicted to drugs and alcohol, then there’s no wonder he’s got a limp noodle. Also, he might just not be interested in you because he’s more worried about his addiction. Also, another reason why men don’t like to have sex is because they might be battling depression. Where you see depression you usually see anti-depressants. A major side effect of anti-depressants is the lack of sex drive. It’s like a Catch 22, you are depressed but then you get on anti-depressants and then you are even more depressed because you have no sex drive.
4)Conflict: So, maybe your man isn’t really into “make-up” sex. If you and your man have just gotten into an argument or if there is some sort of conflict between the two of you, he might not want sex. In my opinion, communication is the number one way to solve a conflict but sex would be my number two!
5)Stress: It’s no wonder that you’re man is stressed out with the economy being the way it is. Hell, I think we are all stressed out to a certain degree. There are many forms of stress and they can stem from: problems at work, financial difficulties, identity issues, issues involving family members, etc.
So, there are a few reasons why ‘women’ think that men don’t want sex. I’m sure every man right now is shaking his head in disbelief. Yes, we do think we know it all but when it comes to something like this, I admit..we know nothing.
Now, moving on…if you are a woman..you have probably been wondering what the “REAL” reason is behind your man not wanting sex. You and me, both! I have spent a lot of time researching what men really think but don’t really have the balls to tell us. It blew my mind when I read these and like I said, they were pretty hard to swallow. Sometimes the truth hurts, I guess. Here we go, ENJOY!
“Why Men REALLY Don’t Want Sex”
1. You’re fat.
2. Tired of hearing your nagging and bitching.
3. You’re not that good, you suck in bed.
4. Your vagina smells funny.
5. I’m banging someone else.
6. You’re out of shape.
7. You’re still fat.
8. You never satisfy me, I am tired of satisfying you.
9. You’re belly is too big.
10. Sex with you is now boring.
11. You bitch too much.
12. Why would I have boring sex with you when I can just masturbate?
13. I’d rather watch porn.
14. You’re not who I thought you were.
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02/6/09 Sex 6 Comments
Usually in mine and my wife’s relationship it is a timing thing. I’m the horniest the day she starts her period and she is the horniest the moment 5 minutes after I couldn’t take it no more and stick in my fav dvd and relieve the torture myself and then she tells me “guess what”?…we can have sex now. Just can’t seem to win these days…lol.
Interesting….
Where did the survey results come from? I’d be curious to see the age demographic on them too.
I can say that the sex thing in our house has totally lagged because of me, but I’m having health issues and when I feel like crap or hurt (back problems) sex is about the last thing on my mind. Or maybe it’s not, but the way it’s on my mind is that I feel bad about the fact we aren’t having any lately. Husband claims it’s ok, but sometimes I find that hard to believe.
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I have to say I find it hard to believe any of #s 1-14. Guys will bone anything that breathes!
We use to have good sex. Until over night my husband says he cant preform. I would try to make advances and he would push me away. He would take me out to friends parties and leave me. We would go places and he would walk either away in front of me or way behind me. He has no interest in anything I do. I only hear critisism. If I am lucky I might get a quick kiss with no touching of any kind. I have been cut off financially. I have learned to not to ask for anything. I feel unworthy of love. I am very depressed. I am fat and very ugly and old.
First of all, you are not fat/ugly/old…you might ‘feel’ that way but you aren’t. I say we are only as ugly as we feel, so you need to put on your pink thongs and get to steppin. You are allowing (which is easy to do) your husband to steal your joy. Don’t start to ignore your life by being obsessed with his and whatever kind of funk he is going through. There are a number of reasons he’s pulling away, I think you need to get down to the nitty gritty. Call him out on it. Be confident. Ask him why his dinky is not interacting with your winky. Know your limits, and know how far you will go and how long you will put up with this. Suggest therapy. Whatever the problem is, I can’t say that he will be 100% honest about it so it’s up to you to decide where to go from this point but don’t take it personal. Please, it really is “It’s not you, it’s me”. Something is wrong with him, not you.