After I found out I confronted the woman and she tried to make it out like she wasn’t a slut and said it was my fault! ARE YOU SERIOUS??? Anyway, I let her walk but when I got home I told my husband that I knew everything and of course he denied it for as long as he could. When I finally got him to admit what he had done I got so mad that I punched him in the face several times locking his jaw up. I have never hit anyone in my life and didnt even plan to hit him until I finally heard him say the words.

I am so hurt by what he did to me that I feel that I could never hit him hard enough to make myself feel better. So instead I was looking up reasons why a man would cheat. I feel like I need answers.

I tried so hard to be everything that he wanted me to be. I kept our home clean and spotless, had food prepared when he came home from work, I went to the gym to look good for him, and I thought our personalities clicked which is why I married him.

We all have to keep in mind that shit happens and to move on from it. Its not always easy but its what we have to do to make ourselves happy.

Your blog was so true and seriously funny and it expressed everything I was thinking. It made me feel better to know that I am not the only woman who was cheated on for an “Ugly.”

Thanks

Nix

When a woman is aware of a man’s committed relationship and still has no problem spreading her legs, …this is ugly my friend, and it goes straight to the bone. I can appreciate your desire to take up for all the ‘other women’ in the world but this only makes me question your position on the topic, which allows me to speculate whether you are, in fact, the “other woman”. I hate to burst your delusional bubble but your opinion as to why men cheat is somewhat demented and way off the mark. Again, your comment allows me to think that you:

a) have been in the dark about being cheated on
b) are one of the spineless floozies, aka ‘the other woman”.

Please know that when you make an assessment about someone, you need to bring a plethora of facts to the table and regarding this situation, you are empty handed. Concerning my blog, I indulge on certain (sometimes personal) topics, releasing only tidbits of information to my readers about myself and the situation. I have no problem with readers voicing personal opinion’s on my blog but please be advised that:

a) these are my deepest, inner thoughts
b) you would never be able to connect me to my blog in a line-up
c) you can not judge a blog when you are unaware of its tone
d) if you are offended by my blog, don’t read it
e) ignorance will be tolerated, hence the reason I approved your comment.

Now, if you’ll excuse me, I’m running late to my photo shoot and I don’t have time for “ugly”.