Comments on: Getting Dumped

By: cia

cia — Mon, 08 Mar 2010 20:19:29 +0000

I am a widow so much older than some of you. I thought I was special and went to bed with a guy I had just met on our first date. we dated for five weeks and the last night we went to bed he told me he loved me. I think I said it first, yes, I know I did and he replied he loved me too and even said it before he walked out the door for the last time. Anyway, he dumped me the next day, no official dump over-the-phone-method or face-to-face, just one day he loved me the next he blocks me from calling him and or emailing him. Nothing can feel worse than to feel you are not respected by someone so much so that they can just throw you out just because you had sex so early on. I guess that’s the bottom line. He used me, he said tons of things to me that made me feel wonderful but they were lies. It’s so painful to be a fool and to be a dumped fool. phew, I’m too old for this but I will never go to bed with any guy right off the bat. I really liked him too. I really wanted to have a loving relationship. This all just happened yesterday. I’m blogging so I can not feel so alone about it.

By: grass is greener

grass is greener — Fri, 29 Jan 2010 03:13:16 +0000

Hey honey about to turn 32 and although I walked away, i still feel the emotions of being dumped. Only because I believe if you both love someone enough you will fight to be with them.
Even though I feel devistated, I can see the light at the end of the tunnel and when I am happy and fit and gorgeous, then love will find me again. Get to the gym, stay off the booze, look hot and stop sooking in you own misery. No one will love you then. A year is too long. My plan only incorporates a two month max grieving process.. after that you are wollowing in self pitty.

By: Jody

Jody — Fri, 08 May 2009 23:34:53 +0000

Wow queeny this is so so true. I dated this guy and I wanted to break up with him but I didn’t know how I could live without him. I even wrote down all the times he dissapointed me or was a jerk and I got to 100! Yet when he left me I was absolutely devestated. The rejection stings. You do remember all the good things. The good things you felt. The memories gone forever, the time you feel you wasted since they’re gone. I still have not dated seriously for a year. He didn’t want commitment with me and now I don’t want to be commited to anyone. Its like I’ve turned into him. I keep telling myself most of this is rejection. I even like myself a lot and think I’m a good person but I just feel like I lost everything and don’t think I’ll ever want to be with anyone again. It’s like the last straw for me in a string of bad relationships. I’m 30 now and I’ve never been married or had kids and I kinda feel like my romantic life is over and I don’t even have the energy to try.

By: Tyler

Tyler — Sat, 31 Jan 2009 13:08:57 +0000

What is it about getting dumped by someone you don’t even like and then you start to like them? That’s crazy. Humans are so bizzare. Great blog.