Comments on: Am I Just A Booty Call?

By: I am just a girl

I am just a girl — Wed, 09 Jun 2010 05:48:26 +0000

Oh one more thing, it doesn’t related to your beauty and attractiveness. I’m a model, my friends are catwalk models, we’ve been through this as well. IT’S JUST HAPPEN YOU LIKE/LOVE SOMEONE AND THEY CANT RETURN A SAME FAVOUR BACK TO YOU……

By: I am just a girl

I am just a girl — Wed, 09 Jun 2010 05:41:48 +0000

Julie,
I’m sorry to hear that. But Please run for your life NOW! stay far far away!!!! I had guy, he would talk to me for a month before we date, and really comfortable to be with me, took me to holidays, and finally i’ve got emotional attached, he just turned around and said he wasn’t sure how he feels just yet….oh dear….. I let him go immediately and MOVE ON…… (Go read ‘ He is just not that into you) you’ll save most of your time and heart break after you learn those signs from men!!!

(listen to your guts feeling, if you don’t feel right, there must be something wrong….)

By: Julie

Julie — Mon, 03 May 2010 03:14:35 +0000

Im really a little confused here, This guy i met we dated and went out for about a month,I would say about on the sixth date we ended up sleeping togather and after that went out a few times then it stopped and now all he wants is me to come to his house just sex no dating anymore,I will be honest from the start we both said we did not think we ever wanted to get married again, We were looking for friendship and we would see were it went from there, Then it just stopped,I have spoken with him twice about it and he said it was more then a booty call,Still no change third time ,Now said friends and family were who he hangs out with, He wants no drama and no one to answer to ,Im not stupid i get it ,But why would he date someone first and make me like him then make it a booty call there are so many people out there willing to except this,Thats what im angry about and now its hard for me to cut off,I tried and he still called back and i broke down because i care for him,And by standards im a very attractive lady,Now i feel like im not pretty enough,why is he embarresed to take me out he did in the beginning,I need some advise …..

By: Lady Di

Lady Di — Fri, 12 Mar 2010 00:45:17 +0000

I think believe that men are much more capable of booty calls then women. We like to say we can keep our emotions out of it sometimes, but in reality we’re just not wired that way. Most women connect sex with intimacy. To deny this is dangerous. A women who knowingly engages in a booty call will eventually get her feelings hurt, unless it so happens that the male does something that is a total turn off….snicker..snicker..he!he!

By: Danielle

Danielle — Wed, 10 Feb 2010 18:44:26 +0000

oops ‘your feelings’. Sorry.

By: Danielle

Danielle — Wed, 10 Feb 2010 18:43:09 +0000

To me a booty call relationship works best if you REALLY don’t see yourself with that person in any other capacity besides sex. The minute you have any sort of convo with that person and you like to talk to them, find out you have much on common, etc. then you are screwed. You are going to start liking that person and start putting emotional expectations on it no matter what.

So don’t sleep with anyone you actually like. You can be physically attracted to them, but if you’re feelings are more than lukewarm, stay away cause you might get hurt, or rather, try to date them instead of just sleep with them.

By: kaylee

kaylee — Tue, 05 Jan 2010 23:08:20 +0000

I was in a booty call relationship. I do agree in most circumstances that men are better at these types of relationships than women. However for me it worked just fine. The reason why it came to an end was due to some unnecessary drama coming from his end which is another story. I have to say though personally, I think it takes people being honest with themselves mature, and understanding the boundaries all the while keeping the emotions out of it.

By: jilian

jilian — Sun, 13 Sep 2009 00:51:37 +0000

i do think many women cant do booty-call relationships very well–even if the man is not appropriate relationship material–still cant justify using a man for only sex and filling a void. men do this better!

By: Joern

Joern — Wed, 11 Mar 2009 03:01:54 +0000

I agree with you, men just think (and feel) different than women. Yes, we are ‘ruled…’
thanks for not putting the blame on us (men)

By: Todd Doyle

Todd Doyle — Tue, 10 Mar 2009 22:14:18 +0000

So, yesterday I go to the car wash and had to get change from the doorman. His door was all the way at the very end of the building near the two automatic car wash bay doors. Only three cars in the whole big lot when I started walking down. I pass the second bay door, and there’s a car parked there but funny thing was, it wasn’t being washed. I saw a young girl’s head bobbing up and down in the passenger seat where a young man was sitting. They saw me but the activities I was seeing continued. Needless to say I didn’t get any change, the doorman was gone. But, after I walked back to my vehicle and then immediately pulled up behind the blue car, the girl’s head did pop back up into the driver seat, and she had a mysterious grin on her face as she pulled away. What do you think? Were they rudely interrupted or do you think everything came out alright?